Online dating may be popular way to find someone special, but you still need to
apply some safety precautions when you arrange to meet for your first date.
Precautions
Always agree to meet somewhere public, and at a time of day when there are a good
number of people around. Always tell a close friend or family member when and where
you are meeting. Take a cell phone, and make sure you know the route home. Don't
get stranded. Don't miss the last train.
Location
So you've clicked with someone online, and have now decided to meet. But where?
The choice will always be a personal one, but you should at least ensure you meet
somewhere public and as mentioned above, always meet somewhere busy.
Of course, you'll want to actually hear each other, so avoid noisy nightclubs that
don't have a quiet area! A good restaurant is a great choice! But be sure not to try
something too unusual - unless of course you know you're both into the unusual!
What to wear
First impressions always count. Choose something both smart and comfortable.
What to say
Avoid talking entirely about yourself and do show an interest in your potential
partner; for example, compliment their outfit, hair, jewelry. Compliments like
these are a gentle way of saying you're attracted to that person. Avoid
controversial subjects to start, at least until you get to know each other. It's true
to say most of us like to talk about ourselves, but remember to be a good listener!
Open the conversation with something light: Almost everybody likes movies, music and
good food!
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