Good concepts, once you get a handle on it...
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8 Jun, 2010I had a little bit of trouble following the material, but once you get a grasp on what the author is trying to say, the book is well worth the price. The book is not well written, has a lot of typos, like others have said, but I didn't buy it to grade it. I bought it to better understand women, and I think it was valuable there.
What I got out of the book, is that men have to be keen observers. Not all women are the same (shocking!!), and a lot of the other date books either assume that they are, or they will only tell you how to be successful with a certain type of woman. This book also gives good insight on how to keep a good woman, once you catch them.
I really don't want to steal the author's thunder by summarizing. But what I got out of the book was to a) recognize what kind of woman you are dealing with b) respond in a manner that is appropriate to her personality and the situation, and c) continually assess and adjust to keep things sharp. There's a lot more in the book (almost too much), but the nuggets I got from here were valuable.
Pretty good
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8 Sep, 2009Got this on the Kindle version. Some pretty good advice in this book. Had a problem with some typo's along with copy and paste information. It was very annoying trying to read and stumbling across a typo or realized you have a page or so of copy and pasted information. This could have been prevented if the book was proof read.
This information combined with other books and skill sets will come in handy if you have a foundation in Social Dynamics. Many of the "lines" and "openers" given are not of high quality and when used in situations will have you sounding indecisive and at worst like a tool.
It probably works for the author as he is in his fifties and admits he likes using classifieds and web services in the book.
The information later in the book that covers relationships is some good information as that is something that is not covered. I would not recommend this book as a stand alone book as it does not go further in depth on body language and how to present yourself to women. The book in and of itself is based on the authors philosophy. The philosophy is sound.
My recommendation would be to read other authors such as Mystery, David DeAngelo, Style, Gambler, and Adam Lyons in addition to this.
Bottom Line: It works!
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16 Jun, 2009Great book! It works. I never liked doing the "cocky and funny" and PUA stuff. Too phony. Not me. Dating To Relating is the real thing. It allows you to just be yourself. Works way better than that other stuff. Can't give it enough praise.
I have subscribed to Deangelo's Interview Series for almost three years now and have listened to advice from over 30 gurus, but Dating To Relating's advice worked better for me than anything else.
Mr. L. Rx is in a different league than these other gurus. Miles above them in basic knowledge and understanding of how it all works. In fact I was better able to apply things I had learned from other dating Gurus after studying and understanding Dating To Relating.
Absolutely The Best!
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24 May, 2009Well this has been without doubt the best $31 I have ever spent in my entire life. This book absolutely changed my life. Nothing in my life that I have ever read has had such a life changing impact on me so quickly. If you want to learn how to meet and relate to women, do yourself a favor and get this book.
I bought this book a number of months ago on Amazon but didn't get around to reading it until lately. Actually I started reading it, got turned off by something in the first few pages and put it down...Meanwhile a friend gave me "Double Your Dating" by David Deangelo and I bought "The Mystery Method" and "The Game" in a used book store.
I met a girl as a result of Denagleo's book, even had sex. However, she wasn't my type and it didn't last long.
Mystery's and Strauss books while interesting were pretty useless to me. Perhaps if I had read them before I read Deangelo they might have been more useful. As it is they didn't get me anywhere. They didn't improve on anything Deangelo wrote. I think they appeal more to guys who want to be pick up artist. I just want a girlfriend. So then I finally got back to reading Dating To Relating - From A To Z.
The second time I started reading it, I couldn't even remember why I was turned off the first time. ( I now think it was the grammar factor that several other people have mentioned.) But this time, after having read the other guys books, within minutes I realized Mr. L. Rx really knew what he was talking about.
The biggest problem I had with the other guru's books is that they all treated women as if there was only one type of women, and one way to approach them. I really didn't feel comfortable being "cocky and funny" and the various other things that these gurus wanted me to do.
Mr.L. Rx's style is way beyond some fabricated approach. He is the only one who points out that different women have different personalities and require different approaches. And he is the only one that gives you different ways to approach different types of women.
With Mr. L. Rx's book I actually achieved an understanding of interpersonal relationships and how to be comfortable approaching any woman while still being "me." Better yet I learned how to approach the type of women that I was interested in - a smart classy woman that basically would laugh at me when I used the Deangelo, Mystery, and Strauss approaches.
Using Mr. L. Rx's techniques made meeting women natural - not a strain. Within a week of reading his book, I had met and was dating four new women. And since it usually takes me about two years to meet and date one woman, this was quite an accomplishment. For the first time in my life I felt free of inferiorities and self-deprecation.
Best of all, all four of the women really liked me and said I wasn't like other guys. Almost exactly the words Mr. L. Rx said they would say in the book. I wasn't having to act like some jerk to impress them. I was just being me, and for the first time in my life I had the problem of deciding who I liked the best and who I wanted to continue seeing the most. Nor was I having to lie or hide my intentions from anyone - they all know I am dating other women.
I can't say enough about this book. Again it has changed my life. This is the true technology of how to meet and relate to women. None of the other books even come close.
If there are some grammatical oddities don't be deterred by them. The knowledge this book imparts is way more important than how it says it. If you want to learn how to meet and relate to women and still be yourself - not some pick up artist jerk - do yourself a favor and get this book.
And if you do want to be some pick up artist jerk. Then this book will still work better for you than the others. It will make you more of a pick up artist and less of a jerk.
save your money
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14 May, 2009A rambling, poorly edited book which is packaged like a school textbook. There is some decent content, but the grammar and syntax makes it seem like youre reading someones first draft. Thirty dollars? Its like being back in college where they charge your left arm for school supplies. Save your money, and keep looking.
